Friends Group - A Theory

Ever wondered why friendship "groups" daily majority of time, and the more members in the group it seems...the faster is goes away. Friendship as large the minions, only existed in movies - and that too because they were a different species. Coming to humans, group friendships are more delicate than a feather and can collapse whenever, where-ever.
Abiding by this reason, I am quite not the fan of any groups. I rather prefer not hurting my self in the future, than that of being alone in the present. But this constant, observation dwelled and enforced me to think on why human behaviour takes this turn ?
Intuitively, more friends - more pathways to make up is what one would expect. But counterintuitively, a person need to get along with the majority of the group - he/she may be in that group for just the sake of one or two people. 
If that were the case, then this person, would be indifferent, discriminating and severely against anyone else. Causing distrust and eventual disintegration. Don't get me wrong, groups exists...yay 😀...but then deep down - is this group gonna last long ? I don't think so.
Individual friendships are much simpler and easier to get along with. You both trust each other, respect each other and wollah...that's it. No complicated interjection of other personalities...no complicated aftereffects of your actions. It's just two opinions, two thoughts and done. 
And there you go, a compund explanation on why group friendships don't last forever. It's because too many ideas, too many thoughts and too many people to care about ruin just about the witiest of witty brains~
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